Gratitude

The mural we painstakingly painted in 2010 is now gone!

The mural we painstakingly painted in 2010 is now gone!

Yesterday we painted our house.

Today, the house is mostly a neutral gray, the kind of color recommended by our management company so it appeals to the most potential renters.

I expected to be emotional. One of the first things I did when we bought this house was paint. I love bright bold colors. I painted our bedroom blue, one bathroom yellow, another purple. Our kitchen was coral. (it looked better than it sounds). I painted our living areas a lovely gray (the neutral gray that is now our entire house).

Particularly meaningful was our kids rooms. Peter and I had painstakingly painted their rooms when I was pregnant with each of them; blue for Sam and pink for Madeleine.*  They both had detailed murals. I loved painting those for the kids. I prayed for them as I painted and looked forward to their arrival. The thought of painting over the murals was painful. I expected an emotionally hard day.

However the overwhelming emotion I had was gratitude. I like to be self-sufficient. I can do most things myself, and honestly, prefer to do things myself. I don’t like to ask for help. I don’t want to inconvenience people. But we did. We knew we needed help. Even I had to admit, Peter and I could not paint our entire house by ourself in a day.

We asked people to come over, we asked for help. Then it snowed.  A lot of snow. I thought no one would come. Yet, we still had friends come over to paint our home. Friends we know well, friends we know less well, and friends we just made yesterday as they picked up a paintbrush.

So thank you, friends. Thank you for teaching me community. Thank you for making what could have been a very sad day, a joyful day.

Maddy saying one last goodbye to her mural and then helping with the kitchen painting.

Maddy saying one last goodbye to her mural and then helping with the kitchen painting.

*Benjamin has a nook in our room. We got it ready but didn’t paint it.

About Melanie

I get to serve Jesus in Costa Rica, where I live with my family.
This entry was posted in family. Bookmark the permalink.

4 Responses to Gratitude

  1. Cathimommy says:

    I think Benjamin gets the first painted wall in Costa Rica. And we have lots of walls to put lots of colors on! Come to think of it I think I have a few more walls that need color on them!

  2. georgewarren2013 says:

    Thank you for this beautiful letter sharing the emotions that you will experience many times over in your missionary service. I’m thankful that there were many hands to help with the painting, but also turning the sorrow into joy. Thank you for sharing this piece of your heart as you continue your walk o obedience in following the Lord.

    Gerge ________________________________________

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s